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My 15 Favorite Freezer Meals!

Oh man, freezer meals are the best!  

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I got the tip to make them when I was pregnant with Henry and I was so incredibly grateful for them after he was born and I was trying to adjust to new mom life. I also whipped up a bunch when I was newly pregnant with Rose because once my morning sickness sets in I'm kind of useless for 3 months but still wanted to be able to feed my family. And then they came in handy again after she was born. So basically freezer meals have saved my family's lives multiple times so that we didn't die of starvation or a lack of nutrition. 😂

Before I get to the recipes, I wanted to share a few random tips in regard to freezer meals that I've learned as I've experimented with quite a few different recipes! If you don't care, skip right on down to the recipes! :)👇🏻

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1- Be wary of new or untried freezer recipes

Oh man, we've had a few odd ball freezer meals that thawed out and and had a whacked out consistency that made them hard to eat - mostly with certain soup recipes. I don't want to freak you out from trying new recipes of course, but I do suggest you make freezer meals that someone has actually tried and shared with you (like all of the ones I'll post here- they are tried and true!) or ones that have reviews on them. 

2- Cook the same ingredient all at once  

Assembling freezer meals goes much faster if you combine cooking meats/pastas etc. If you are cooking 5 different meals that all require 1 lb of ground beef, cook it all together! It's a big project at first but saves you time overall and you get more meals from your efforts. I cook my ground beef, chicken, pasta noodles and grilled onions all in one go and then it makes it SO easy to assemble. When you go to divide it all up for each separate recipe, don't over stress about it being the perfect amount of beef etc for each recipe. Eye ball it and figure it out as you go, it will work out I promise! The prep will feel like it's taking forever but then assembling is a matter of minutes and makes it so worth it. (By the way- when I prepare my shredded chicken, I plop all of the chicken breasts I'll need for however many different meals in the crock pot with some chicken broth and once it's cooked (like 6-8 hours later), I shred it all in one go and then separate it into different bags per the recipe it's needed for and refrigerate it to finish assembling the meals for the following day.) 

3- Depending on how many you make, this will take a few days, and that's okay! 

When I made freezer meals while pregnant with Henry, I really thought I could make all 20 meals in one day. I think I did finish them in one day, but it was like 10 hours of non stop being on my feet all day which was HARD at 36 weeks of pregnancy. I remember crying a lot at some point and felt like I had to finish because I had already started so many and didn't want to waste food. So, my advice is be realistic and don't overdue it. Split it up. Take breaks. I've had to realize I can do even less at a time if my kids are awake as well. All that matters is that you make a few steps of progress at a time! Rome wasn't built in a day! 😉

4- Make as many as you can, you will always wish you had more!  

Pretty much every time we run out of freezer meals I feel this terrible dread of having to make dinner every day again, especially after having a new baby. With Henry I made 20, and with Rose I did 24 and remember being really happy with that amount overall. You definitely don't have to make that much, but if you can get through it, do it! Make as many as you have room for! (Of course keep in mind that each meal only lasts so long in the freezer. Here is a great site for reference.) 

5- If doing multiple all-day-Freezer-Meal-making days feels overwhelming, do baby steps  

My friend Megan is the freezer meal queen, and one of her tips is to just make double meals every time you make dinner, and then set aside one to freeze. Pretty ingenius and probably only adds 5-10 minutes to the time you're already giving to make dinner for the day! 

6- Buy disposable casserole pans 

You don't want your main cooking dishes to be out of commission for over a month, plus who wants to do dishes after dinner? No one! Disposable pans all the way- they are awesome. 

7- Double wrap and double bag!  

When it comes to packaging up the freezer dinners, don't be content with just one layer of tinfoil on top. Double or triple up! Wrap those babies super thoroughly. (Also PS, those plastic lids that come with the disposal pans are a joke. Don't use them, they just keep popping off and hardly add any protection to your food.) Same with meals that go in plastic freezer bags. Make sure you buy the heavy duty plastic bags for the freezer and then double or triple up! This helps protect your freezer from any leaking that might happen before they freeze as well as it keeps out the freezer burn for longer. 

Double bagged beauties :)  

Double bagged beauties :)  

8-  Set aside ingredients in piles based on each recipe

I always order my freezer meal ingredients all together which can be a little crazy, but it's nice to get it done in one go. After I have them and am ready to start cooking, I move the ingredients for each recipe into their own little pile. It only adds 5 minutes and helps omit some of the confusion that can happen when trying to make 10 different meals at the same time. 

9- Read the WHOLE recipe for every meal before you start cooking  

Don't just skim. Read them well beforehand so you have a good general idea of what you need to do for each one. I made a lot of mistakes (mixing up ingredients, forgetting ingredients, leaving out important steps) when I made them with Henry but making them for this third baby was a much smoother experience because I knew the recipes fairly well at that point and knew what I was doing. It also helped that I took my time and made sure I was doing it right the first time (which actually saves you time in the end!) 

10- Write the cooking directions on the meal before you freeze 

I didn't do this step with Henry which just meant I had to look up each recipe when I went to cook it which was just a lame extra step. Some of them are pretty self explanatory but for some it's really helpful to write down the oven temp and time amount!

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Okay, phew! If you made it through that, you're awesome! Here are the recipes! You can find a bajillion others on Pinterest, but these are our family's favorites, divided up into several different categories. :) I'm posting them in full length here as well as the link to where I found them. (PS- you'll find that we really like chicken. ha!)

Recipes WITH Chicken

Baked Creamy Chicken Taquitos

Recipe found here. 

Ingredients
3 oz cream cheese
1/4 cup green salsa
1 tablespoon fresh lime juice
1/2 teaspoon cumin
1 teaspoon chili powder
1/2 teaspoon onion powder
1/4 teaspoon garlic powder
3 tablespoons chopped cilantro
2 tablespoons sliced green onions
2 cup shredded cooked chicken (for extra yumminess, use grilled taco chicken!)
1 cup grated pepper jack cheese

small corn or flour tortillas
kosher salt
cooking spray

Directions
Heat oven to 425. Line a baking sheet with foil and lightly coat with cooking spray.

Heat cream cheese in the microwave for about 20-30 seconds so it’s soft and easy to stir. Add green salsa, lime juice, cumin, chili powder, onion powder and garlic powder. Stir to combine and then add cilantro and green onions. Add chicken and cheese and combine well.

You can prepare up to this step ahead of time. Just keep the mixture in the fridge.

If using corn tortillas place 6-8 at a time on a baking sheet and place in oven for a few minutes until soft. (Or microwave wrapped in a damp paper towel for 30 seconds.)

Place 2-3 T of chicken mixture on the lower third of a tortilla, keeping it about 1/2 inch from the edges. Then roll it up as tight as you can.

Place seam side down on the baking sheet. Lay all of the taquitos on the baking sheet and make sure they are not touching each other. Spray the tops lightly with cooking spray and sprinkle some kosher salt on top.

Place pan in oven and bake for 15-20 minutes or until crisp and the ends start to get golden brown.
Make Ahead: To make dinnertime assembly a breeze, prepare filling up to 2 days ahead of time and store in the fridge in an airtight container.

Freezer Instructions: Place unbaked taquitos in a single layer of a baking sheet and place in the freezer for 2 hours or until frozen enough to hold their shape.  Pack in a freezer-safe container for up to 3 months.  To bake, follow the same instructions, extending the baking time by 10 minutes.

*When I freeze these, I bake the taquitos, then freeze them so my husband can just warm it up at the microwave at work.

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Freezer Chicken Enchiladas

Recipe found here. 

Makes enough for 20 enchiladas

Meat Mixture:

  • 3 T. cooking oil
  • 3 small onions — chopped
  • 2 4oz. cans chopped green chilies
  • 5 c. cooked & shredded chicken or turkey
  • 3 pkg. taco seasoning mix
  • 2 c. water

Cottage Cheese Mixture:

  • 3 c. cottage cheese
  • 1 c. sour cream
  • salt and pepper to taste

Other Ingredients:

  • 20 8″ tortillas
  • 3 c. shredded Monterey Jack cheese — divided
  • 4  10 oz. cans red enchilada sauce (or you can make your own)

DIRECTIONS:

I make ALL the enchiladas up at one time.

For the Meat:

  • In a large skillet, heat oil; saute onions and chilies until onions are cooked. {about 5 minutes}
  • Add chicken, taco seasoning, and water; simmer until most of the liquid has evaporated.
  • Set aside.

For the Cheese:

  • In a medium bowl, mix cottage cheese, sour cream, salt and pepper.
  • Set aside.
  • Measure out 2 c. of the shredded cheese {you’ll use the other 1 c. for a topping}

Assembly:

  • Heat tortillas until soft {I just wrap them in a damp paper towel and nuke them in the microwave for a few seconds}
  • Spoon about 4 T. of the meat onto each tortilla.
  • Spoon about 3 T. of the cottage cheese mixture onto the meat mixture.
  • Top with 1 heaping Tablespoon of shredded cheese.
  • Roll up the tortilla and place in a covered baking dish.

That’s it…you’re finished {for now}!

Simply cover your baking dishes, label them, and put them in the freezer.

I like using glass baking dishes with tight-fitting lids so my food doesn’t get freezer-burn or spill. I also like preparing several different size dishes so I can easily adapt our meal for large or small groups. {I often use these meals when I bring food to people from our church, new moms, or someone who is unable to cook — so it’s nice to have different sizes}

Directions for Baking Day:

Now comes the easy part!

  • Pull out a pan of enchiladas in the morning {it doesn’t matter if they are completely defrosted}
  • Preheat your oven to 350 F.
  • Pour a can of enchilada sauce over the top of the enchiladas.
  • Sprinkle a generous amount of shredded cheese over the sauce.
  • Bake, uncovered, for 20-30 minutes {depending on how frozen they still are}
  • Enjoy!

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Chicken Alfredo Pasta

 Recipe found here. 

Ingredients

·        8 ounces of Pasta (use whatever you have on hand)

·        1 Jar of Alfredo Sauce

·        3 Baked and cup up Chicken Breasts

·        2 teaspoons Garlic Salt

·        1 teaspoon Italian Seasoning

·        1 Cup Shredded Cheese

Instructions

Step 1 – Bake your chicken breasts and cut into bite sized pieces

Step 2 – While the chicken is baking, boil a pot of water to cook the pasta until it is a little under done

Step 3 – Mix the chicken, pasta, Alfredo sauce, cheese, garlic salt and Italian seasoning together in a bowl

Step 4 – Spread the casserole out in a 9×13 pan or 2 9×9 cake pans if you want to make one now and freeze one for later.

Step 5 – Top with a handful of shredded cheese and bake at 350 degrees for 30 minutes, or wrap with tinfoil and freeze. 

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Cheesy Chicken Chalupas

Recipe found here

2 10-3/4 oz. cans cream of chicken soup

16-oz. container sour cream

6reen onions, chopped

1 onion, chopped

3 c. shredded Cheddar cheese

4 to 5 chicken breasts, cooked and shredded

10 to 12 10-inch flour tortillas

2 c. shredded Monterey Jack cheese

Mix together soup, sour cream, vegetables and Cheddar cheese in a large bowl. Set aside 1 1/2 cups of soup mixture for topping; add chicken to remaining mixture. Spoon chicken mixture into tortillas; roll up and place into a 9×13 baking pan coated with non-stick spray. Spoon reserved soup mixture over tortillas; sprinkle with Monterey Jack Cheese. Bake, covered, at 350 degrees for one hour.

Freeze & Serve Instructions: prepare as directed; do not add cheese. (Although I did..). Cover unbaked casserole tightly with aluminum foil; freeze. To serve, thaw overnight in refrigerator. Uncover; sprinkle with cheese and bake as directed.

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Recipes WITH Ground Beef

Mexican 3-Bean Soup

Find recipe here

1 lb ground beef

1 diced onion

2 – 15 1/2 oz cans kidney beans

2 – 16 oz cans pinto beans

2 – 15 1/2 oz cans navy beans

15-oz can corn

14 1/2 oz can stewed tomatoes

14 1/2 oz can tomatoes with chilies

1 package taco seasoning mix

1 package ranch salad dressing mix

Start by browning your hamburger.  In a soup pot, stir together the hamburger, a chopped up onion, kidney beans, pinto beans, navy beans, corn, stewed tomatoes, tomatoes with chilies, a package of taco seasoning, and a package of ranch salad dressing mix.  Simmer and serve.  That’s it!!  How much easier can it be? Brown beef and onion over medium heat.  Drain.  And undrained beans, corn, tomatoes and seasoning mixes. Simmer and serve!

If freezing- brown meat and onions, mix the rest of ingredients up and then package to freeze. 

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Freeze & Bake Lasagna

Recipe found here. 

Ingredients
28 oz jar spaghetti sauce
1 lb. ground beef, browned or I used 1 lb. Italian sausage, browned
8 oz. jar mushroom pieces, drained
16 oz. container ricotta cheese
1 egg, beaten
1 T. Italian seasoning
8 lasagna noodles, uncooked and divided
2 c. shredded Monterrey Jack cheese
2 c. shredded mozzarella cheese

Directions
Combine sauce, beef/sausage, and mushrooms; set aside.

Mix ricotta cheese, egg, and Italian seasoning together; set aside.

Layer as follows in each of 2 ungreased 9x5 loaf pans (I couldn't find disposable 9x5 loaf pans so I improvised with a 9x13 pan and doubled my ingredients when layering): 
once cup meat sauce, 2 lasagna noodles, 1/2 cup ricotta cheese mixture, 1/2 cup ricotta cheese mixture, repeat layers. We then covered with Press 'n Seal and then aluminum foil as it is ready for the freezer.

When ready to prepare, thaw overnight in the refrigerator.  Remove Press 'n Seal, cover with foil, and bake at 350 degrees for 1 1/2 hours. (Maybe a little less time, make sure it doesn’t burn.) And then enjoy!

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Pizza Casserole

Recipe found here

1 lbs ground beef

1/2 onion, chopped

 28 oz. jars spaghetti sauce

8 oz. package Rotini, cooked

8 oz. package shredded mozzarella cheese

5 oz. package sliced pepperoni

Brown beef and chopped onion;drain. Boil noodles until tender. Stir in spaghetti sauce and pasta.  Place mixture in 2 greased 9"X13" pans.  Sprinkle with cheese and pepperoni.  Bake, uncovered, at 350 degrees for 25- 30 minutes.

To freeze: Cover unbaked casserole tightly with aluminum foil.  Thaw overnight in refrigerator.  Uncover and bake as directed.

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Baked Ziti
Recipe found here: 

·        1 pound dry ziti pasta (or really any kind of pasta would work- I actually used Penne pasta)

·        1 onion, chopped

·        1 pound lean ground beef (season with pepper, garlic powder, onion powder, and minced garlic)

·        2 (26 ounce) jars spaghetti sauce (I added a zucchini to my sauce just for more veggies!)

·        8 slices provolone cheese

·        1 1/2 cups sour cream

·        6 ounces mozzarella cheese, shredded

·        2 tablespoons grated Parmesan cheese

DIRECTIONS

1.      Bring a large pot of lightly salted water to a boil. Add ziti pasta, and cook until al dente, about 7-8 minutes; drain.

2.      In a large skillet, brown onion and ground beef over medium heat. Add spaghetti sauce, and simmer 15 minutes.

3.      Preheat the oven to 350 degrees F (175 degrees C). Spray 2 8x8 inch pans with non-stick cooking spray. Layer as follows in each pan: 1/4 of the ziti, 1/4 of the sauce, 4 slices of Provolone cheese, 1/2 of sour cream,  1/4 of ziti, 1/4 mozzarella cheese and 1/4 of sauce mixture. Top with grated Parmesan cheese and remaining mozzarella cheese.

4.      Bake covered for 30 minutes in the preheated oven, or until cheeses are melted.

To freeze this meal: Follow the instructions above, except for the last step of cooking it. Cover the assembled ziti with foil and stick in the freezer (I usually use 2-3 layers of foil just to keep out the freezer burn). It will last in the freezer for about 30 days. When you are ready to eat it, remove from the freezer and place in the fridge to thaw 24 hours in advance. By allowing it to thaw in the fridge, you can cook it at the regular time and temperature (350 degrees for about 30 minutes). If you do not thaw it in advance, it will take much longer to cook. If you cook it completely frozen, it will take anywhere from 90 minutes - 2 hours to cook all the way through.

These fill the 8x8" pans to the top, so I cooked mine on a large cookie sheet just in case they bubbled over (which they did!).

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Recipes WITHOUT meat/chicken 

Skinny 3 cheese Penne

 Recipe found here. 

Ingredients

·        1 (13.25-ounce) box whole wheat penne pasta (I like Barilla®)

·        1 teaspoon extra virgin olive oil

·        ½ small onion, diced

·        1 tablespoon minced garlic

·        1 (23.25-ounce) jar Prego® Light Smart Traditional pasta sauce

·        ½ teaspoon dried basil

·        ½ teaspoon dried oregano

·        ¼ teaspoon salt

·        ¼ teaspoon black pepper

·        ½ cup low-fat cottage cheese

·        ½ cup part-skim ricotta cheese

·        1½ cups shredded reduced-fat mozzarella cheese (I like Sargento®)

·        2 tablespoons chopped fresh parsley

Instructions

1.     Bring a large pot of salted water to a boil over high heat. Cook the pasta to al dente according to the package directions. Drain and set aside.

2.     In a large skillet, heat the olive oil over medium-high heat. Add the onions and garlic and cook until the onions have softened, 3 to 5 minutes.

3.     Reduce the heat to low and pour in the pasta sauce. Stir in the basil, oregano, salt and pepper. Cover and cook for 5 to 7 minutes, stirring occasionally.

4.     Preheat the oven to 350° F. Coat an 8x8-inch baking dish with cooking spray.

5.     Meanwhile, in a medium bowl combine the cottage cheese, ricotta, and 1 cup of the mozzarella.

6.     Remove the sauce from the heat and stir in the cooked pasta.

7.     Transfer half of the pasta to baking dish. Evenly spread half of the cheese mixture on top. Then add the remaining pasta followed by the remaining cheese mixture. Sprinkle the remaining ½ cup mozzarella on top.

8.     Bake uncovered for until the cheese is melted, 18 to 20 minutes.Or if freezing, wrap up with tinfoil and freeze. 

9.     Serve garnished with the parsley.

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FUNERAL POTATOES
**Ah! I fail and can't find the original recipe link yet- will update once I do!**
6 c. frozen grated potatoes
½ c. margarine
2 cans cream of chicken soup
1 ½ c grated cheddar cheese
¼ c very finely chopped onion
2 c sour cream
¾ c corn flakes
¼ c melted butter

TO FREEZE
Divide into 2 ziploc bags for 1 family
Each Ziploc Bag Contains:
3 c. frozen grated potatoes
1/4 c. margarine
1 can cream of chicken soup
3/4 c grated cheddar cheese
1/8 c very finely chopped onion
1 c sour cream

It works really fast and easy to mix the item in a bag individually rather than using a few large bowls and having to disperse the mixture evenly.
Place cornflakes/ ritz crackers in a separate bag to place in pantry.

TO PREPARE AFTER FREEZING
Thaw and place ingredients in casserole dish. Mix cornflakes/crakers and melted butter, sprinkle over top. If still frozen, bake at 400 for 1 ½ hours, uncovering the last 15 min. If thawed, bake @ 350 for 45 min, uncovering last 15 min.
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Slow Cooker Recipes WITH chicken

(Serve these with either noodles, mashed potatoes or rice, depending on the dish!) 

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Slow- Cooker Lemon Garlic Chicken

Find recipe online here. 

·        2 lbs boneless chicken breasts

·        1 t dried oregano

·        1/2 t Lawry's Seasoning Salt

·        1/4 t ground pepper

·        2 cloves garlic, minced

·        1 t dried parsley

·        3 T lemon juice

·        1/2 cup chicken broth

1.     Spray slow cooker with non-stick cooking spray.

2.     Place chicken breasts into slow cooker.

3.     Add all remaining ingredients and cover.

4.     Cook 6-8 hours on low depending on yourslow cooker.

5.     Serve over rice or buttered egg noodles.

6.     ***If freezing, place all ingredients in freezer bag***

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Slow Cooker Chicken Gravy

Find recipe online here

·        2 pounds of boneless, skinless chicken breast

·        1 jar (12 oz) chicken gravy

·        1 can (10.5 oz) cream of chicken soup

·        Salt & Pepper to taste

  • Spray slow cooker with non stick cooking spray
  • Add in chicken
  • Mix gravy and soup together and pour over chicken
  • Add salt/pepper to your taste
  • Cook on low for 8 hours
  • Server over noodles or with mashed potatoes
  • If Freezing combine all ingredients in freezer bag

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Creamy Chicken Italian-O

Find recipe online here

4-6 Chicken Breasts

8 oz Cream Cheese

1 Can of Cream of Chicken

1 Dry Packet of Italian Seasoning

Take softened Cream Cheese, Cream of Chicken and Italian Seasoning and mix together in a bowl.  Take cleaned chicken and place in a Freezer Gallon Ziplock Bag and top with the mixture.  After Ziplock bag is closed, take your hands and push wet mixture to cover chicken.

To cook: Take the Freezer Meal out of the Freezer and hour before starting OR run it under some room temperature water for about 30 seconds.  Dump meal in the a Crockpot and cook on Low for 4-6 hours!

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Cafe Rio Crockpot Chicken

Find the recipe online here. 

4-6 Chicken Breasts

1/2 a small bottle of Zesty Italian Dressing

1 Packet of Dry Ranch Dressing (3 TB)

1/2 Cup Water

1/2 TB of Minced Garlic

1/2 TB Chili Powder

1/2 TB Ground Cumin

Combine all ingredients in a Freezer Gallon Ziplock Bag.  Once ziplock bag is closed, take your hands and combine all ingredients together well.

To cook: Take the Freezer Meal out of the Freezer and hour before starting OR run it under some room temperature water for about 30 seconds.  Dump meal in the a Crockpot and cook on Low for 4-6 hours!

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Crockpot Ranch Chicken

Find the recipe online here

Ingredients

·       Chicken tenders or breasts (I used 1.76 LB chicken tenders)

·       1 Ranch Seasoning Dry Mix Packet

·       1 can Cream of Chicken or Cream of Mushroom Soup (plus 1 can of water or milk)

Instructions

1.    Combine all ingredients in crockpot and mix well.

2.    Cook on low 4-6 hours.

If freezing- put ingredients in freezer bag. When ready to eat, thaw and cook accordingly. 

 

Tips for Handling Young Children at Church

Awhile ago I did a poll on my Instagram stories and this was the second highest blog post topic request! Sorry that I am just now getting to it, life is crazy!

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Parenting is not easy, and one of the places that stresses me out the most each week is definitely church. It's hard to keep young ones quiet while people are gathered together to worship and hear uplifting messages. Sometimes it feels like I deserve an Olympic gold medal after Sacrament each Sunday just for surviving it without crying, especially since Kyler is currently Bishop and can't sit with me and help me with the children on the pew. 😬

Here are a few tips that have helped me greatly each Sunday to keep my kids calm(er) and quiet(er) so I can occasionally catch a few words here and there from the speakers and not feel like a total basket case! Of course, every child is so different and what works for mine may not work for yours! Just sharing these in case they are helpful to others. ❤️ You of course should do what you gotta do to make it out alive! 😉

 

1- If you need help with your kids, find a helper. 

Maybe this is cheating, but since Kyler was called as Bishop, I've been super blessed to have many dear friends in the ward offer to sit with me and help me with my rascals. One couple in particular (the Nielsen's ❤️) sit with me pretty much every week and they have been marvelous. What I appreciate most about them is that not only do they help keep my kids distracted, but they so sweetly follow my lead and help me teach my children how I want them to be taught during the meeting. (I'll explain more about that below.) They have saved my sanity time and time again and I am forever grateful for them and the sweet service they offer my little family. ❤️ If you have many young children and either don't have a spouse sitting with you or you do and you're still overwhelmed and outnumbered, find helpers that would love to sit with you and your children! (But also make sure they are actually helpful and don't make your kids even rowdier. :) Of course there are moments where my kids only want me and no one else (and it seems to always hit them at the exact same time ha!) but for the most part, this has helped me significantly! 

2- Be prepared, but not too prepared  

Further down in the post I'll give you some examples of fun quiet toy ideas I've been able to find/make for my kiddos, but I also wanted to tell you my cautionary tale!  

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When Henry was first born, and then again with Rose, I'd get so nervous about how church would go that I would pack 80 billion toys just keep them entertained. However, having TOO MANY toys and distractions actually made things way harder. I was stressed about the huge mess my kids were making with all of the various toys and pieces flying everywhere and hoping I'd be able to find them again and not lose them... 🙈 it was just pure chaos. I have since found that less is more! A few books, some crayons and paper, a toy for each child and maybe a "project" toy to keep their attention for a little longer has been all we've needed and it's helped me feel better organized and not like I'm dumping out my kids entire toy chest on the church pew ha! It also helps that my helpers always bring cute little toys for my kids as well. (And we all know others peoples toys are cooler than ours right?) If they have a toy from a helper, I usually pack ours away so they don't have a ton out at one time. It just helps me feel a little more put together ha! 

3- Snacks save lives!  

I think this is an area I can improve on, because the previous advice applies here as well. If you have too many options of snacks, you end up just feeding a bunch of animals at the trough. (Pardon the analogy!) If you have just 1-3 options max, you'll know if they are actually hungry or just bored and wanting to create chaos and you'll have less of a mess. I think I still overpack in this area and I'm very motivated to work on it because it's kind of frustrating having them constantly say "I'm hungry" and then noisily digging through my bag and considering all of their options over and over again. (Especially when I totally fed them beforehand, but they oddly act as if this is the first they've eaten all day. 🙄😂) 

When you do bring snacks, I suggest you make them extra special ones they don't usually get at home so they are more exciting. Try to avoid bread, crackers or other crumbly things because they often just make crazy messes and they are harder to clean! Snacks have saved me time and time again, especially with Rosie's age, when a melt down is coming and nothing else will help. Snacks are awesome! 

4- Pay attention to where you sit

I've found it's much easier to control my kids if we sit in a pew as opposed to the metal fold out chairs. They are better contained and the padded pews don't echo with every little movement either!  I've also noticed my kids are harder to control if we sit by other families with young children. Something about seeing what toys and snacks the other kids have always drives them crazy ha! Of course if we end up sitting by some it always works out, I just have to brace myself for the adventure! :) 

5- Some toys hurt more than help 

Toys that make sound or toys that are round or have round parts (wheels, balls etc) only ever cause me heartache when I pack them for my kids. They always drop the balls or cars and they roll far away and then there is little human distress and panic until we are able to find them again. Take my advice- avoid those babies like the plague! 

6-  Avoid making Hallway time fun time 

This one has been a game changer for us! I remember when Henry was just walking and I was pregnant with Rose. If Henry was misbehaving or too loud in Sacrament and I took him out in the hall, I'd be so exhausted and just dread it because he'd just want to run around and climb up and down the stairs repeatedly, which was crazy hard for me while pregnant and with low energy. Finally, one day I was complaining about this to Kyler (who was a bishopric counselor at the time so he still couldn't sit with me at church- I've essentially sat without him every Sunday for most of our marriage ha ha) and he said if it were him taking him out, he'd make him sit with his arms folded on his lap until he calmed down. Then he'd say "if you want to play with toys and have snacks, you need to be reverent and listen so we can go back inside. Do you want toys and snacks?" If he can be quiet and calm, he can go back inside. If not, we'd sit out in the foyer and I wouldn't let him budge. Once I started applying this, it was like a night and day difference. It was no longer fun for Henry to go out in the halls because it just meant he was stuck on mamas lap. It encouraged him to be quiet and reverent in the meeting because at least he got some fun toys and yummy treats there! (Of course all kids are different and will respond to techniques differently, but this worked really well for us!) 

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7- Find the opportunities to teach  

This is absolutely just a suggestion, but it's something that has made the Sacrament extra special to me and my kids. (and what I was referring to that my helpers help me with and help me apply to my kiddos.) ❤️ Growing up, my mom would have us put away all toys during the administering of the Sacrament. (About 10-15 minutes) During this time, she'd teach us about Jesus, explain what was happening, have us look at church books etc and it really made a big impact on me, even as a young child!

Since my kids are still so young, I pack up their toys at this time but have purchased some cute kid friendly books about Jesus and other bible stories and we have story time. (Pictured below.) I'm also fine with them drawing quietly, but I really just love the opportunity provided to teach them something about the gospel. I'll show Henry the young men passing the Sacrament and talk to him about what they are doing and how he'll get to do that when he's older. We'll talk about Jesus and how he loves us so much. Henry is so sweet and you can tell he's really taking it all in. 

If the gospel books aren't keeping their attention, I also bring a few other books to help them stay reverent. And with Rose being so young, if she needs a toy to keep her calm then I am totally all for that too! I just like starting out with toys put away so I have a few minutes to help my children focus on Christ, but if they are having a rough time and need them, I'm not above pulling them out! It's hard being little and I totally try to be realistic with their age and my expectations. ❤️ Doing this during the Sacrament has been a really spiritual and special bonding time for me and them and I love it. Especially since sometimes it's so hard to get to hear the talks while wrangling the kids, so this has been a way for me to still feel spiritually connected and engaged each week. 

8- Don't assume everyone is judging you

This is one I used to really struggle with. When my kids were younger, any time they'd have a melt down or be so rowdy I'd get so embarrassed about how others must perceive us. If I had to take a child out on the hall, I'd look down at the floor and avoid eye contact. Sometimes I'd feel like someone would look back and give me a dirty look. Then one Sunday a woman got up to bear her testimony. She happened to be someone I had felt had given me a dirty look at one point with my loud and squirmy son. She talked about how much she missed being a mom, and how she loved to look at those of us with young babies and wish she was in our place again. It totally hit me that I had judged her instead of the other way around! Ever since then, I have tried to give others the benefit of the doubt and have chosen to believe (whether it's true or not 😉) that everyone is rooting for me.  

I know I'm doing my best to keep my children calm and most people understand that kids are kids and can't be quiet for very long. Now I look people in the eye when I take my screaming child out into the hall and I've noticed far more smiles and understanding looks than judgemental ones. It's helped me feel a sense of community and support instead of feeling ashamed and embarrassed over my kids just acting their age. Of course there are still rude people out there, but more often than naught, people are kind. ❤️ Look for the kind faces, they are always there! You are doing your best- don't let anyone or anything (perceived or real) get you down! 

9- Ideas of what to bring 

Quiet felt books 

You can make one of these or purchase one! They are always a hit and keep my kids so well distracted! The ones pictured below I found at the Target dollar section for $3 each just today. They often have adorable quiet games like these there!  

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This is just the first page. It has 4 different pages/activities - all so cute and fun  

This is just the first page. It has 4 different pages/activities - all so cute and fun  

Books  

Here are those precious books I mentioned earlier. My kids love them and I love how they teach my kids about the Gospel! I got them at Christianbook.com for $2.50 each! (I purchased them for last Easter- not sure of their current price or availability though but I'm sure they still have some type of children's book option.) 

Bad lighting sorry :) 

Bad lighting sorry :) 

Quiet learning activities  

This little Parmesan cheese container activity is such a life saver for the age of 1-2! Both my kids have loved this and it's great for their fine motor skills as well. It's super easy to make. Just clean out a Parmesan cheese container, get some pipe cleaners and little fuzz balls and you're golden! 

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Puzzles  

My mother in law made these for my kids and Henry loves them! Easy to make, they help get his brain pumping and they encourage quiet! Win win!  

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Also, here is also a blog post I wrote awhile ago about some quiet bag ideas for age 1 when they start getting mobile and church starts getting harder! (Pardon the pictures on that post- one day I really need to re-do them 🙈.)  

 

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Well, hopefully that was helpful to at least a few of you! If you have any other suggestions or tips, please leave them in the comments! I love hearing about what works for each of you!  Also, if you have questions on something I didn't address, email me and I can try my best to answer you. :) Happy church-ing!